Marriage & Intimacy Expert & Certified Master Life Coach

I help men to win their wife back, often in 8 weeks or less -- even if she isn't speaking to him when we start.

My Brother,

I'm Bob Gerace, and I'm glad you're here. This isn't about me. It's about God. Yet, a lot of men ask me who I am, what I stand for, what I do, and why I do it. So I'm writing this letter to you to answer those questions.

I want to share with you, the most amazing story of my life. I’m convinced that God has a plan for each of us. And that if we listen carefully, He will bring circumstances into our world that will not only show us that plan, but open the doors and make the way for that plan to happen — for His Glory!

For me, that plan is to have a “Marriage that Ministers to the Masses!” And my free training is the way that I do that. Tens of thousands of men who need just a little bit of help in their marriage watch that video and then I get bombarded with thank you messages claiming I saved their marriage. But I did nothing — other than listen to what God told me, and then got out of His way.

For men who need more help, I offer an 8 week program where my team and I work with them on a daily basis to help them understand what the Bible tells men to be in their marriage — and to actually gain the strength, power, and motivation to pull it off. I praise Jesus for that program, as I believe the Holy Spirit breathed it into my ears.

And so here, I wanted to give my testimony. And I’m going to go out on a limb and tell you that a handful of times I believe God has spoken so clearly that there was no chance of me mistaking His words for my thoughts.

How this program started: When my youngest son was little, he had asked me how much a thousand was. So I dumped out my 5 gallon water bottle of pennies and we began laying them out on the floor, and counting as we went. All at once I as struck with just joy, and such gratitude that God had blessed me with so much joy, teaching my son, spending time with him while he was at an age that I was the center of his world… I prayed silently that God would keep me around long enough for me to be able to teach my son everything he needed to know, and to raise him with a father.

And there was a white flash in my brain, and a thought: you won’t have to worry about that until 47. And you could have knocked me over with a feather. I mean, WHERE did that come from? I was 31 at the time.

Well, as you can imagine, the closer I got to 47 the more I thought about it, but always trying to discount it, and put it out of my mind. But by the fall of my 46th year, it was hard not to think about it often. And then I got a hernia, and there was no avoiding it — I needed surgery. Terrified that the surgery would end in death, as the surgery was just prior to my 47th birthday, I was deep in prayer the night before the surgery, and the same white flashes, and the same voice/thought in my head said, “You’re going to be fine.”

Now, convinced this was God, I slept like a baby. Didn’t fear the surgery at all, and walked into the surgery center without a care in the world the next morning.

Two weeks later, I got the news that during the surgery they found cancer, and it was advanced, and it was bad. I would not know for a couple more weeks any kind of prognosis.

BUT here’s the thing… I KNEW I was going to be fine! Even if that meant FINE with Jesus in Heaven, or FINE on Earth. I didn’t doubt my faith at all. God had given me this incredibly gift where I could ACTUALLY FEEL him with me. I guess, to be honest, I always wondered, if my faith were truly tested, would I be able to stay in belief and faith — and what I knew when I heard that news was that God is good and faithful and I believe what He says — no matter what.

AND God was also working on me deeply at that time. He was showing me that NOTHING matters other than LOVE. OUR love for HIM. And in our love, service, and obedience to HIM our LOVE for each other. And as a HUSBAND our love for our WIFE. And as a FATHER, our love for our KIDS. And as a CHRISTIAN our love for everyone else. IN THAT ORDER.

AND God showed me that I had been wasting my life, being conformed to, and pursuing the things of this world, and MISSING this message of love and service.

WELL, I started treatment, and Praise Jesus, I WAS fine, right her on Earth. 18 weeks later. Chemo wasn’t fun, but God had told me I would be fine, and it turned out He meant right here on Earth.

AND I knew in that moment, that my life had changed forever.

I had to become a NEW man.

I had to become a REAL man.

I had to become a much better HUSBAND and a much better FATHER.

And I had been called to TEACH this.

So again in prayer, I asked God, “What is your plan for my life?”

And the same flashes, and the same voice/thought in my head, “I want you to have a Marriage that Ministers to the Masses!”

Of course, I had no idea what that looked like, but found it very eye opening that God told me it starts with MY marriage.

And what I came to understand was that God had gifted me the PERFECT wife to help me learn. And she had been helping me learn our entire marriage. Oh, I Praise Jesus for her!

And what God breathed into me at that point was not only knowing and understanding that fact, but also knowing it’s true for you too — and how to help you see it, and it’s how He designed marriage — and it’s how He has gifted me with the ability to teach you too.

What came next was an amazing series of miracles where doors opened, people came into my life, and things just started opening up and happening.

I would pray every night that God will tell me what men need to hear, and every morning I would wake up with it on the tip of my tongue.

I didn’t prepare. I didn’t write notes. I spoke what I believe God put in my head.

And now, thousands of men through the training, I can’t tell you how many times men have told me what as they watched the video, read the email, or received the coaching — IT IS EXACTLY WHAT THEY NEEDED TO HEAR IN THAT MOMENT.

And I don’t take any credit for this, brother. I give all the credit and Glory to God.

So many marriages restored, Praise Jesus!

And I would love for yours to be next.

If you want to find out more, click the link below to access the free training that ministers to the masses — and see if you believe you qualify for this coaching to change your marriage, your family, and your life forever — in becoming aligned with exactly what God has planned for your marriage… I’ll teach you what He taught me. How to hear Him better. How to walk with him more closely. In a way that you can truly learn His plan for your marriage and your life.

And if we both think you’re a fit, I’ll invite you into the brotherhood. Iron sharpens Iron, brother.

Inside that brotherhood are incredibly strong, loving, Christian, business men who love Jesus and love their wife and kids, and want to do God’s will to bring their family to Christ, and enjoy all that God has for them on this Earth while doing so.

Do you qualify? Watch the training and then at the end, book a call to find out.

Because what is going on inside the brotherhood is life changing, and world changing, and way more than I can describe here.

Here's the crazy thing. In an extremely masculine, Christ-like way, we men in my programs and the BROTHERHOOD develop deep love and respect for each other.

As I'm typing this, I'm reminded of one such man who put a secret signature of "Soli Deo gloria" (Latin for "Glory to God alone") on his work to remind himself that his INCREDIBLY MASSIVE SUCCESS IN HIS CHRISTIAN WALK — LEADING TO HIS INCREDIBLE SUCCESS IN MARRIAGE, CHILD REARING, HEALTH, AND BUSINESS SUCCESS is and was NEVER about his own glory, but always for God's alone.

I couldn't agree more. To whatever success I -- and the men I help --  achieve in MARRIAGEBUSINESSHEALTH, and CHRISTIANITYit would not be possible without God, and God deserves all the glory.  In this BROTHERHOOD one man sharpens another, and in this example he sharpened me as I sharpened him. And therefore I believe and declare:

Soli Deo gloria!

If this story speaks to you, brother, then I want to help you too.

It starts with your marriage. If that's not right, nothing else matters. Click here to watch a Master Class for High-Achieving Men to Learn How to Win Her Back to the Table, to the Conversation, and the Bedroom so you get started on the Last but Most Important Piece of the Puzzle.